By Cathy Strickler
February 14, 2021
Hi Everybody, it’s really great to be here with you all and have the opportunity to talk. Thank you Merle, I really appreciate you for asking me and I really appreciate you all for listening. I also appreciate and thank everyone who has made these programs possible. They have been a consistent source of connection and comfort.
When Merle asked me to speak I knew right away that I wanted to talk about compassion because I had been thinking about it a lot lately. I have enjoyed the process of writing and getting my thoughts organized.
The main thing I want to talk about is what I’ve found helpful in difficult situations where I react with a strong negative response. Sometimes it’s a harsh judgement, anger, deep irritation, or deep disappointment. Ideally, compassion is a better response. Compassionate thinking is the necessary first step to compassionate action. But sometimes we don’t even get to first base with compassionate thought. It’s easy to run the bases when the object of our compassion is easy to be compassionate to. But it’s hard to even swing the bat to try to get to first base when we’re faced with people who seem hurtful to other people or to us, who seem to reject us or disappoint us, who seem mean or irrational, whose actions are abusive or violent, people who are so damaged that they seem to have no redeeming value, people who we think have done huge damage to our world and who we disagree with so strongly that we want to scream, cuss, get as far away as possible or completely shut out. The trouble with compassion is that sometimes it’s really hard, and even seems impossible.
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